Tired and Angry day..

Yesterday was a very busy day for me, coz i got to pray my dad in e morning then fetch Erina for lunch and shopping.. and i need to go to town to buy birthday present for hubby..
1st morning wake up i got no time to clean up e house, and i got to rush to buy food to pray my dad at san qing gong.. plus i keep calling Alvin and he didn't ans my phone, i think he's not going to meet me liao.. so sian every time ask him to sleep early then next day morning meet me, he sure over slept or didn't turn up.. wen i was about to leave home, Alvin return my call saying that he just wake up and he will take a cab down to temple to meet me.. then i also receive Jason call, he say he wont be able to join us coz he is busy at work.. i wen down stair to buy rice, fruits and kopi but dun have huat kueh.. so no choice i have to go 85 market and find huat kueh, by e time i reach temple already 12plus.. everything like so rush like that, some more quarrel with hubby along e way to temple.. he see me dress up and keep asking me, where am i going later.. i told him that fetch Erina lor, then lunch and shop around.. he like not happy with my ans, wa lau i cant tell him e truth that i need to go town Gucci to buy gift for him.. so my ans was like ah, orh & then... haiz we keep quarrel till we reach Sengkang fetch Erina, and we still haven't talk.. i feel so pissed off, damn angry and i dun feel like buying gift for him anymore... around 5pm we send Erina home as we need to go master Lim's place to pray and get joss stick for our BKK trip.. after praying, hubby got company dinner at Shangri-la so he drop me off at Taka.. then i start my shopping for his birthday present, buy 3 boxes of brief for him, buy cheesecake for his family and i had my dinner alone at taka.. so sad lor... about 8pm, hubby came to Taka to fetch me and we wen home to pick daddy and send him to sister Kim's house coz we are leaving for BKK trip today.. Mum & sis bought cake and make red eggs for him, everyone give him hong bao and i surprise him with Gucci key pouch.. hubby say he very touch, and sorie of making me angry for e day.. finally everything is done, pray daddy, buy thing for Erina, buy birthday gift for hubby, send dad to sister place and clean up e whole house... tired, tired, tired, tired....... I'm leaving for BKK trip later, hope hubby and i do enjoy our trip... Yeah!!!

Sunday

My in laws
Sister kim & 2kids

Sun, morning wake up wen breakfast with hubby at our house here e coffee shop.. then wen san qin gong temple pray my daddy as i need to inform him that i had settle all his debts for him liao and i meet 4Th auntie and my cousin there too.. coz they wen to pray their ah ma, so we stay at e temple till 3pm then we go home.. around 7pm hubby, dad and i wen to long beach seafood at east coast to meet mum and sis.. we had our dinner there and celebrate hubby 29Th birthday..

Saturday

Me, Alisha & Adeline..

Xavier & I

Adeline, Xavier & Me..

Sat, wake up around 2pm clean up e whole house and iron hubby shirts.. around 6plus we go to Alisha's son ( Adam 1st bday ) @ Joo chiat.. wen we reach her house, we were shock coz e whole house is full of kids and they are all same age de lor.. from 1-4yrs old, and they are all very cute de lor.. and i saw a few old friends working in duck tours, but didn't reali have a good catch up coz too many ppl liao.. i was with Adeline, her hubby & Xavier.. he is damn cute lor, very talkative and playful.. hubby was like abit boring coz he dunno anyone but he do enjoy Xavier acc, and at least Adeline's hubby chat with him.. around 9plus we left e place as we go bedok pick up Joseph and go to JJ's grandfather funeral at jurong east.. we were there from 10plus till 12plus then we go home.. hubby and i suppose to go for movie de but we are too tired liao, so we send Joseph home then we also go home rest..

Friday

Friday, 2:30pm meet up with Alvin @ Tampines mall DBS bank to withdraw e money out.. Jason share $28,697.20, Peter Agent fees $5500 & Me $28,697.20, and finally i had clear all my daddy debts with aunties and uncle.. i think this is e best day i had, i went to collect my aunties golds and return all cash to 1st uncle in law and 6Th auntie.. still get balance $3,400 i divide into 3share, Alvin 1k, Me 1k & 1,4k to ah ma & ah gong.. i believe my daddy must be smiling in heaven now and saying thank so much to his sisters and brother in laws.. i know there's ppl saying behind my back that I'm stupid or acting good, but I'm not coz to me whether i have this money ant i still live my life... and e more my daddy reali make alot of mistake in his life and he hurt them alot but yet they are still very kind to take care of him till e end.. not Jason, not Alvin or Me who acc my dad till he die.. is my aunties and ah ma, deeply from e bottom of my heart i wanna say Thanks to all of u....
And at nite around 11plus hubby bring me to Hongkong st China Box for drinks as his reservist camp mates wanna celebrate his bday for him... we had alot fun and his camp mates are nice and good acc, they dun look at ppl one kind and all can chat everything under e sun.. and we hang out till morning 5am then go home, reach home hubby still order MAC breakfast.. i was like eating my breakfast with my eyes close... haha... damn powerful nite ma...

Hubby is coming home

Wed, morning wake up start to do housework as hubby is coming home tonite.. 1st laundry then change all bedsheets, wash towel, go market buy some stuff to prepare dinner for him.. I prepare barely water, mashed potato's and cream of mushroom pasta.. and i printed out a welcome home note and hang at my room window as I'm afraid that hubby wont have e chance to see me when he got home, coz i had a wedding dinner at nite.. but around 6plus hubby is back, then i quickly prepare dinner for him and acc him for awhile then i left home.. I took a cab from Tampines to Jurong point, as e dinner was held at Jurong safra club.. I spend $40 for my cab fare coz e uncle wen to e wrong way, coz he also dunno where is e club and he bring me round and round jurong way.. I tot i was very late coz i reach there around 8:10pm, but lucky dinner still not started yet.. and Han Bing's wedding dinner was big as he hold 55tables and still not enough, i was like wa so many ppl... and alot of beng beng and seng seng, haha and i saw alot of long lost friends.. those friends that never contact for 14yrs liao.. but after all everything was good, e food was nice and service was good, but i didnt stay till late as hubby came to pick me home.. So i wen back home around 10:30pm..

Han Ping & Rene 20/05/09

Thurs, morning wake up do housework then around 12pm meet up with Jason to go bank to open a join acct.. we went to parkway DBS to open our acct, but last min Jason forget some of his document so he wen back home to take.. so i meet up with Lisi at parkway Ah Kun for a drink while waiting for Jason to come back.. around 2pm he was back and we return to e bank to settle everything, and e bank say must wait till friday after 2pm then u can withdraw e money.. so after everything is done i meet Sherina at Tampines starbucks for coffee and then we wen Swensen's for ice cream.. around 6plus Sherina acc me to Tampines one to pack Subway back for my father in law, while queueing someone ask " any one's put their bag at e corner chair??? '' e guy standing beside me say YES is mine, then e ppl say someone took your bag and run away.. Sherina and i was shock and we like huh?? aiyo.... how come got ppl dare to do this in front of so many ppl here?? aiyo... so bad......

Nails and coffee day...

Today i wake up at 8:45am, i feel damn tired and my eyes damn painful coz i watched dvd till 3am.. e min i open my eyes i saw Yunying sms, she msg me asking how do i do lately and she told me e news about her 2sisters.. i feel sad for her but i didn't reply as i promise my ah ma, they all not to get into her and my bro thingy.. coz she always check information about Jason and make thing worse for everyone.. sometime i reali dun understand wat she wan also, nothing can change e past as Jason already got marry and had a son.. i knew tat he had ill treat her b4 and owe her alot but all this is a past, we cant help or change it.. as she should know tat what kind of person he is, e more u go and disturb him e more she get it.. sometime she just dun understand tat we are trying to protect her away from him.. haiz...

As per normal, wake up do laundry and some cleaning up then go down stair buy new paper and food for daddy.. around 12pm, i wen to far east for my nails appointment as i broke 2nails liao and I'm having wedding dinner tmr nite.. then around 2pm Rentia came to meet me as we arrange week b4 for coffee wen i come to town, but we change our location from orchard to Funan mall coz Pearlie is here and we meet her for coffee together.. so we had coffee at TCC till around 6pm, and we reali do catch up alot.. cox i didn't see pearl for more then 10yrs liao, and Rentia is expecting now.. so happy to see them today.. around 7pm i return to tampines and i bought dinner for daddy and get concert ticket for sister Kim at sistic then i head home... then i eat my food, watch my dvd and chat online.. suddenly i recall that i had a miss call in e morning and is ah ma, so i return her call back.. she were asking about e $$ thingy, i told her tat Jason haven meet me to open join acct.. so i still cant get e cash yet, then she say dun worry slowly.. actual i abit worry, i rather settle it fast and once and for all rather then e Chq is with me but cannot cash out yet.. and e more, I'm leaving to BKK next week later Jason cant find me tot that i take e $$ and run how?? haiz stress... hopefully everything can end asap..

Prove i didn't lie.. reali haven cash yet...

When is hubby coming back??? i miss him badly lor.. so sad to sleep alone, so cold...

Finally paper

Today morning, heavy rain... dunno why suddenly i feel so lonely and cold, maybe is because hubby is not around with me ba... as per normal, wake up liao do some housework then watch my dvd.. and get ready to meet Jason and Alvin for lunch at toa payoh HDB, and collect our chq for daddy's flat.. wen i about to go out, suddenly my father in law tell me that he wanna go down stair and i told him that I'm not free to bring him down today so i ask him what he need or can i bring him down tmr?? then daddy say never mind never mind, i can go down myself.. i was like what, pls, no... then he say he just wanna go down buy toto by himself coz 3million jackpot... i was like huh?? orh.... then i inform hubby, coz i scare later he faint or fall coz raining but i reali got no time for him coz i got to be at HDB by 2pm...
Around 4pm, peter agent is here and we finally sign e paper and collect e chq.. total we had $62,880k and we need to go to bank to open a join acct so that we can cash out e $$$.. so we went to POSB then POSB say onli DBS can make it so end of e day we din open any acct yet.. so Jason and i will meet another day to open a join acct.. finally everything had settle and i can get my share to return to my ah ma and aunties... and i saw my old long lost friend Pearline at HDB, she is also an agent.. it been a long time we din catch up liao, and we had a good chat today.. hope to see her again.. now I'm alone with daddy and hubby is now out field at Lim Chu Kang... so poor thing... hubby, i miss u.....

My weekend

Sat, same old routine around noon time i wen to pick Erina up and wen to Ntuc to bought food back to jalan kayu.. but sometime different is onli Erina and me, coz hubby is in camp.. around 4pm i call Alvin to wait for me at my house down stair coz i cant carry all e stuff i bought.. dinner i cooked chili fish, salted veg duck soup, mince pork steam eggs and desserts is green bean/ sweet potato soup.. nice...... around 6pm i finish cooking and start cleaning up a whole house and Alvin is sleeping so Erina keep making noise as nobody play with her.. around 7plus mummy and hubby came back.. hubby say my chili fish was nice but too spicy and duck soup abit too oily..LOL
Sun, wake up early morning 10:30am, hubby and i wen to tampines mall for breakfast and we had B.K then we wen for a movie ( Angel & Demons ) nice movie... then we wen to buy alot of stuff from ntuc coz hubby got to stay in camp for next week.. so sad i got to sleep alone liao... nowadays i been very busy watching The gem of life so abit lazy to blog... keke

Alvin's Graduation

I'm proud of him..

Congrats Bro...

Friday, a very important day for mummy and me coz finally Alvin make it.. Early morning 5:30am my alarm clock rang, so sleepy and tired but yet excited.. coz got to prepare to attend Alvin's graduation, and i got to buy tie for him early in e morning.. so we wen to Mustafa to buy a tie for him and wen to his school at Ngee Ann ploy.. we reach there around 8:45am, we wen into e hall around 9am - 10am then finally Alvin is called up to e stage to collect his cert.. mummy feel so touch and her tears almost fall.. me also touch and damn happy for him lor... finally 3yrs has past liao, and it time for him to think for his future.. Jie you didi...

Sun, Mon, Tues

Sun, Mother's day lunch with my in law side.. we went Paramount Hotel for dim sim, after lunch hubby and i wen to meet Erina for lunch again.. coz she was alone at home with her daddy as her ah ma wen for majong session.. and she need to pass me gift... then evening time, sis and mum bought dinner over for us.. sun..... damn tired and damn full... e whole day we been eating and eating and eating... i damn fat liao lor... cannot take it liao.... i must go on diet man...
Mon, hubby 1st day of reservist and I'm alone at home.. and i got to buy lunch and dinner for daddy and daddy ask me to help him buy toto... oh god buy toto.. i dun like.... hubby came home very late and i cooked maggie noodles and herbal tea for him.. hubby very poor thing, weather so bad and he like sick sick like that and have toothache... and hubby tell me that he work like shit in camp.. aiyo hubby going to slim down liao... poor thing...
Tues, morning go ah ma's house pick up letter for jason and chat chat with her.. around 10am like that i wen to Tampines One to buy lunch for daddy, lunch Carl's JR, Subway for dinner, 5 Mac ice cream and 6 Apple pie... damn alot of food rite, all is for daddy wan coz he like western food onli, so i have to 1 short bought everything home to stock up.. at nite hubby came home, i cooked zhou for him.. mince pork zhou...

Sat

Sat, Vesak day is hubby's Chinese birthday so morning i went down to market and buy mee sua, mince pork and cook red eggs.. so hubby wake up liao, saw it very happy and say thanks to me..

Then noon time we wen to order flowers for my mother in law and sister in law for mother's day lunch appointment on sunday..then hubby also bought flowers for me too.. haha... guess he must be touch that morning i cooked mee sua for him that's why he buy me flowers..

At night we went for Mother's day dinner with my family @ No signboard geylang.. onli Jason didnt join us coz of his baby boy and Erina wen malaysia with her ah ma.. so onli Alvin, Jojo, uncle Heng and mummy..

New member

Yesterday Jason sms me say his wife in labour, but seem like not very good as e baby cant normal delivery.. so around 10plus i went down acc him then around 12plus mummy and Alvin also came to meet us.. we waited outside e labour ward for about 2hrs, then doctor say reali cannot wait for normal delivery liao must go for ops.. coz water level low liao, and baby still not out yet abit danger.. so around 3pm they push her in for ops, about 30mins later baby is out.. is a boy, look so much like my bro.. oh god.. damn cute lor... but wen e 1st min i saw e baby, my tears nearly fall... not because i'm touch, is because i think about my 6Th aunt... it let me recall about her, let me think back what happen 5yrs ago.. and i reali miss her... but i din tell anyone about it coz i scare later they say why i so bad mouth de, at that time still can think of 6Th aunt... so i just keep quiet, and wait for e nurse to let us carry e baby.. around 5plus after e nurse feed e baby, we bring baby out to e room and everyone start taking pic.. and i try to touch him also.. but e baby like my bro, just wanna sleep.. no matter how we chat or take pic or touch him.. he also never wake up... damn cute......

New member in my family... little Tan

Monday blue

Mon - suppose meet Sherina and Janice in e morning for breakfast and swimming but suddenly i see that my father in law not well.. he keep complaining that his headache was very bad, and i heard him banging e cupboard.. guess he reali in pain, so i decided not to go out so early and wait for hubby to come home to look after him then i go out.. sometime wen i see my father in law like that, let me recall of my dad.. let me feel that sick ppl reali need acc as they easily faint or need help wen they're alone at home.. my father in law have history of fainted inside e toilet more then once, and he nearly die coz of his heart.. i see him like that also very poor thing, everyday at home nothing to do wanna eat also cannot eat much later vomited or stomach upset.. haiz.... so yest end up i didn't meet up with them as hubby came back late and i had fall asleep while waiting for him.. by e time i wake up is already almost 4pm, so dad ask us wanna acc him play majong ant?? so we played one round majong with him, onli thing he like is playing majong.. after playing majong, hubby see i didn't went out then he feel bad so he ask me out for dinner.. and daddy wen to bed so we both went out to tampines and had Jack's place for dinner..

Bad day

Sat was a very bad day, morning 5:30am woke up and clean up e room as Alvin's friends drank till morning and the room was abit messy... then around 8am Jason called, say e master has reached his house liao then ask me where i am?? i was like huh?? tot u said meet 8:30am??? i haven even went to collect e praying things leh, then he say no need liao.. e uncle help us arrange and bought everything liao.. i was like what?? tot u asked me to order?? i paid money liao wor, then he said sorry forget to tell me.. so i asked Alvin and hubby faster go, and faster drive there.. half way down, he call again say that they [have almost finish e prayer liao.. ask us no need to go up 139 to fetch my dad, say meet us at temple.. i was what what again.... damn!!!! reali pissed me off........... i tell them no matter what must wait for me, i want to send my dad off.. so wen i was about to reach Jason called again say uncle say why never place my dad at bright hill temple, why place at san qing gong??? he told my bro that bright hill temple more cheaper and can place for months.. then i got more more worked up, i was so pissed till i cry.. and i reali broke down.. when i reached the temple, Jason came to me and asked me what I'm unhappy with just say.. i told him we can talk later coz we are praying now, and my 1st uncle say pls dun quarrel most important is place daddy properly 1st.. so i walked away, after everything is done Jason came to me again and asked me what e f i wan and why i keep pin point on him, and e best part he say ask me one to one.. what e fuck rite!!!! and he shout ask hubby to stay aside say not his prob, is between him and me.. hubby is like what e fuck u wan to beat my wife and ask me walk aside??? hubby so bloody fed up with him, hubby asked him one to one lor. Hubby like mad man lor... then things became more worse, we like mad ppl shouting and fight outside e temple.. 1st uncle and Alvin keep pulling us aside and asked us to stop.. but i reali cannot take it liao, i had enough from this man.. he asked me why and what, so i tell him off.. i tell him how many bad things he had done to e family and how many times he had hurt us.. i tell him that we never had let him go or look down on him b4.. onli he always keep thinking that we ill treat him... we quarrel outside e temple for almost 1hr, then we talked peace and he promise he wont hurt our relationship and he will try to talk to us more and share his problems..
then after everything done, we packed chicken rice back to resort for mummy they all.. Erina was abit sian sian, i also dunno y but suddenly she complained that she has headache and cough.. then she start crying, hubby and i quickly send her to yishun 24hrs clinic to see doctor.. doctor said she got slight fever 37.9, and cough.. so nothing much, and she's fine.. so wen back she had some food take medicine and i ask her to sleep but she dun wan.. she wanna play with my bro they all.. so no choice i let her play with them then she say she feel beta now and wanna go swimming.. i was like huh swimming??? can meh??? just got fever leh.. then she start angry again, so i call her dad and ask and he say ok la.. so i bring her for swimming for around 1hr onli, we go back then order MAC for her to eat.. guess eat Mac was e worse thing ba, then around 12am her ah ma call and ask her to go home.. so i send her back, and she look sad coz she wan to stay one more nite with my family.. then e next day, sunday morning around 8am nick's sister called... saying that she's sending Erina to hosp now, i was like shit what e hell happen again?? its because of swimming??? then she asked me what i had given her to eat and where we went?? so i told her everything, then i asked her if i can go down with them, she said no need coz hosp onli allow one acc.. around 10am she msg me again say Erina is fine now, doctor said she got slight asthma thats y she kept vomitting at nite and complained of chest pains.. so they gave her the nebulizer to clear her lungs.. aiyo so young like that liao, sad lor... and i reali scared that its because of me then she like that lor.. coz i didnt take good care of her, and let her get more sick.. i feel very bad for e whole day, dunno what i can do..

Alvin 21st Birthday

Friday morning, i was tired and busy then i received a call from Jojo saying that Alvin and her had a quarrel.. then my feelings was like huh?? haiz, going to check in resort already and wanted to give him e best 21st birthday.. then Jojo said Alvin MIA, didn't go home.. Wa lau, i felt damn mad lor. why today going to have party then he like that.. so i went to jalan kayu to check what happened, coz i'm worried later he go mad then MIA on us and dun show at the resort.. wen i reached home, i saw Jojo then she told me that Alvin wen jogging.. aiyo... made me so worried, haiz...around 3plus we checked in, e rooms were damn big.. we had 3 rooms, 2bed rooms and 1 living room.. total there were 5 beds to sleep, so uncle, mummy, Jojo, Alvin, hubby, Erina and i all staying over nite there plus Alvin's friend Weili.. at 1st Alvin said some of his friend might not be coming coz they said e country club was too far liao, then Alvin was abit upset.. but around 6plus his friends came, then more and more... total about 30ppl came for his party,and they reali had alot of fun.. playing, drinking and watching football.. and even my mum was drinking too lor.. she also high lor.. haha... onli hubby and i rest early, coz Erina got to sleep early and sat morning i need to move daddy to temple..



She's trying to act cute again.. LOL

Aiyo..... Haha

Ah ma & Ah gong

Orchid Country club Room 411-413

Alvin and Mummy's Room

Alvin's birthday gift from hubby and me..

Alvin's bikini birthday cake..

Mummy's birthday...

Zoo outing 30th April 09

Thurs, outing to zoo with sister in law ( Kim ) and brother in law ( Les ) with e 2 kids.. Les came back singapore for a week, so sis plan to go outing with us and e 2 kids.. onli father in law and mother in law didnt go coz thurs noon father in law just discharge from hosp.. we suppose meet sis at zoo at 11am but end up we reach there at 1pm had our lunch @ Kfc, then start our tour.. We end our tour around 6pm, as desiree went to kidsland to play water.. think this is a very fun outing coz e 2 kids damn cute de lor.. think must plan more outing with them..